Difference between Feminism and being a true Feminist

 

What is Feminism ??
What is the first thing that comes to your mind when you Read the word Feminism,  May be it is Women empowerment and Strengthing the Women's community but for some people ,Feminism means equality. Think about it ,what will you prefer in life after marriage,  A women with sole duty to handle your family's responsibility ,or a women with a careless thrive, party basher and lot of mood swings...
May be it's your choice ,how you wanna define your life and family in your own way  ,OK let's not judge a girl afterall it's a feminism time but let's think before judging someone you have a mother,  you have a sister, you have a Girl bestiee, what if your mother wanna be one of the party basher, it's her dream to go out and enjoy the night life of cities, Ever you asked this Question to your mom?  I guess no, even if yes,  her reply would be no.
forget about country, lifestyles , tradition out of which a  mother is always a mother irrespective of all these and also irrespective of mammals too.
OK,  let's talk about a sister, or your best friend, you fight together, you play together that's how you grow old ,but why do we need to compare this? It's a cause of comparison now. According to Truth, Feminism means empowering women, in all fields and in equality with men.
But nowadays , fact stays different in other manners.

The above two images are taken from Washington point blog, have a look,  Do you think the meaning of feminism has been changed nowadays,  Further feminism teaches us to respect females but what do you think you can respect a women, who is cheating his 5 boyfriends.  You can't say it's her choice , except some pseudo feminists. Actually there is a loop hole in our education system,
We have been taught about antonyms in a wrong manner example day /Night,  Black/White ,good/Bad ,Men /Women antonyms is something which means complimentary to each other.  It means with the existence of one thing there is no existence of other things, example
Good can't be defined without bad(No existence of good without bad). Day can't be defined without night. Truth can't be defined without Lies, and similarly Men's can't be defined with Women's . And  a true Feminism lies with a women who is working hard to create her career, working hard to help her parents, working hard for her passion and working hard for the society.  The Feminism doesn't stand with a girl who shouts on her parents for late night parties,  not for a women who uses Boyfriends and feelings of boys for Fun,  not for a women who wants to live carelessly. And not for a women who says she can wear any types of clothes as she want, because it's her life.
Yes,  it's your life only may be the statement is wrong, may be I am discussing one side of the coin but what the matter is you are criticising the efforts of lakhs of girl child  who are fighting just to born in this world.
Okay,  so All I want to say is be a true feminist for your mother, be a true feminist for your sister, be a true feminist for your Girl friend, be a true Feminist for your Best friend , be a true Feminist for all the women who are trying to fight everyday for any cause, may be there passion,  family stress,  side burden, Health issues or anything. But you are trying to be a feminist for a girl who says Wearing short dresses is a feminism, Drinking Beer is a feminism, then you are killing the efforts of millions of womens who are fighting day and night to fulfill there dreams, aspiration, you are killing the efforts of there mother.

Thank you.


Hope you all liked my article, and understand what I am trying to say.
Be a feminist for all the inspiring women's around us, not for one who says "It's her choice".